Last week we decided to stay at home and finish renovating the inside of our house and have the kids stay with their Mamichele and Papy. I wasn't too worried about Charlotte as we left her for 3 days last year at their house with no problems and she would be there with her cousin that is the same age. But I was so nervous to leave Emilie. We had left E and C once for 48 hours when we went to Venice but it was here in our home with all of their toys and beds, etc.. but I had never left Emilie for a week straight with 3 other kids (cousins) at someone else's house. Charlotte had a great time and thankfully Michele sent me pictures or videos every day of what was going on.
We were so busy getting things done around here that the week flew by and it sounded like E was having a great time. So then they drive here with the kids on Sunday and right away Charlotte is so excited, giving me hugs and really happy to see us. But Emilie would not even look at me, wouldnt come into my arms at all and wouldnt give me kisses. All this, when before she left I was always the person that she wanted and she would always switch to be in my arms instead of others. I was so hurt. And then I was scared that I had damaged our child and that she would need to have therapy later on in life and it would all come back to the time her mother left her at her grandparents house for a week. Alex said I was being a little crazy. Just a little.
Anyway, she is getting better with things, but still cries when I go downstairs in the house or if she cant find me. And every afternoon she has to be in my arms. She has stopped the crying before her sleeps, thankfully. As she was never the kid that cried before sleeping. You would ask if she wants to go to sleep and she shakes her head yes and that is. Slowly we are getting back to normal. Hopefully it will be better next year when she understands more and can talk more as Alex and I thought this would be a great vacation for them. Pool, grandparents, parks, not as many rules, etc..
All this and then Charlotte asks me yesterday if we can go back to Mamichele's house as she likes it better there.
Killing me here kids!! :)
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| The three youngest grandkids enjoying a color session |
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| Love this picture. Can you see the joy on this child's face? Beautiful! |
A big thank you to Michele and Robert. The girls did have a great time and we really appreciated the time we had to work on the house.
Un grand merci a Michele et Robert. C'etait vraiment chouette et amusant pour les filles et c'etait aussi bien pour nous avec la renovation de la maison.